Intimacy Coordination & BDSM Consulting for Film, Television, & Theater
Grounded, collaborative guidance for productions that require care, clarity, and consent—without compromising creative integrity.
(917) 524-8823
Consent-Informed Intimacy Coordination for Film, TV, and Commercial Production
I’m Amanda K. Rue—an intimacy professional, BDSM consultant, somatic facilitator, and energy worker with 15+ years experience spanning creative strategy, intimacy coaching, and conscious kink.
Before intimacy coordination, I worked in advertising and branded content with companies like VICE Media and ACE Content. I understand the pressure, pace, and emotional nuance of creative production—and how to navigate intimacy within it.
Today, I bring that background together with my expertise in consent, nervous system awareness, and embodiment to support bold, vulnerable storytelling.
Services
Intimacy Coordination
Script review, boundary check-ins, choreography, on-set performer support.
BDSM Consulting
Visual realism, rope safety, kink-informed power dynamics and consulting.
On Set Safety
Scene decompression, emotional integration, and post-intimacy care.
Where Consent Meets Creativity
The best intimate scenes are rooted in trust—not just between characters, but among the cast, crew, and creatives behind the lens. I approach every set with presence, sensitivity, and the structure needed to allow vulnerability to thrive.
My work is trauma-aware, power-informed, and deeply collaborative—designed to support actors in showing up fully, while staying in integrity with their boundaries.
Selected Projects & Collaborations
Dying for Sex (FX/Hulu) – BDSM Consultant
The Wingers (Independent Feature) - Intimacy Coordinator
By the Roots (Independent Feature) – Rope Artist & BDSM Consultant
Motorbunny Series – Intimacy & Production Lead
Sex Life (EPIX) – On-Camera Talent (S1E4 & S2E2)
Knotty or Nice? (Lion’s Den) – BDSM Consultant
Additional: SentientFest, Burning Man, Less Dead Studio, and many others
Let's Connect!
Whether you're navigating vulnerability on set, weaving power dynamics into your story, or creating a kink-forward visual moment—I'm here to support the process with clarity, care, and creative collaboration.
Let’s talk about what your project needs, and how I can support it.
I’ve been honored to share my work, voice, and perspective in these publications and productions.
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