Intimacy Coordination & BDSM Consulting for Film & Television
Grounded, collaborative guidance for productions that require care, clarity, and consent. Certified* Intimacy Coordinator to support with scenes including nudity, simulated sex and emotional vulnerability.
(804) 387 - 2775
Consent-Informed Intimacy Coordination for Film, TV, and Commercial Production
I’m Amanda, an intimacy professional, BDSM consultant, somatic facilitator, and energy worker with 15+ years experience spanning creative strategy, intimacy coaching, and conscious kink. I am currently in the final mentorship phase of becoming a Certified Intimacy Coordinator.
Before intimacy coordination, I worked in advertising and branded content leading creative strategy with companies like VICE Media and ACE Content (Anomaly). I understand the pressure, pace, and emotional nuance of creative production, and how to navigate intimacy within it, with care and precision.
Today, I bring that background together with my expertise in consent, choreography and embodiment to support honest, vulnerable storytelling across film and television.
Production Services
Intimacy Coordination
Script review, consent and boundaries, rider language, choreography, on-set performer & crew support.
BDSM Consulting
With over 8 years as a pro BDSM practitioner & educator, ensure visual realism, safety and psychological nuance.
On-Set Safety
Safety initiatives including closed set protocols, as well as scene decompression and post-scene integration & support.
Where Consent Meets Creativity
The best intimate scenes are rooted in trust, not just between actors, but among the cast, crew, and creatives behind the lens. I approach every set with presence, sensitivity, and the structure needed to allow vulnerability and creativity to thrive.
My work is trauma-aware, power-informed, and deeply collaborative. It is designed to support actors in showing up fully, while staying in integrity with their boundaries.
Selected Projects & Collaborations
Dying for Sex (FX/Hulu Award Winning Series) – BDSM Consultant
It Happened One Summer (SAG-AFTRA Feature) - Intimacy Coordinator
A Minor Time (Independent Feature) - Intimacy Coordinator
Is this Okay (Student Short Film) - Intimacy Coordinator
GirlMovie (Student Short Film) - Intimacy Coordinator
By the Roots (Independent Feature) – Rope Artist & BDSM Consultant
Motorbunny Series (YouTube Series)– Intimacy & Production Lead
Sex Life (EPIX) – On-Camera Talent (S1E4 & S2E2)
Knotty or Nice? (Lion’s Den) – BDSM Consultant
Let's Connect!
Whether you're producing an intimate scene, weaving power dynamics into your story, or creating a kink-forward visual, I'm here to support the process with clarity, care, and creative collaboration.
Reach out about your project needs, and let's explore how we can work together!
*Certification Pending with Intimacy Directors & Coordinators
I’ve been honored to share my work, voice, and perspective in these publications and productions.
Creating safer spaces for intimacy
on screen and in life.
+1 (804) 387 - 2775
amanda@alayarose.com
Newsletter
Subscribe now to get updates, reflections and special offers!
©Alaya Rose, LLC